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Will anyone ever call me Mommy?

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Great, just what I needed.  Something else to make me cry today…what a lovely poem.  It truly expresses the desire we all feel to give our love to a child we can call our own.  I just miscarried after a DE FET at 10.5 weeks.  My d&c was Monday and the pain is still so fresh.  My shock has worn off and depression has set in.  I still have hope, but right now I feel like I’m at the bottom of Mt. Everest having fallen from the top–and I have no strength to climb it all over again.   thanks for letting me vent.  Best wishes and positive thoughts for all the people unlucky enough to be here.  I hope we are all called mommy very soon!!! Karen

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Will anyone ever call me Mommy?

Now you had to go and make me cry. AF came today and I am so sensitive.Hormones ARGH!  That was wonderful BTW. I hope it happens for all of us and sooner than soon, like this cycle. KIM:-}

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LOL wow typing through tears is hard that was tooooooo lovely. Good luck Nicole 15 weeks 2 days Due Dec 22

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Crying my eyes out — thanks:)  This stuff usually doesn’t get to me, but this one hit a nerve.  I was with the children and foster children of friends of ours all evening.  They were so sweet and I had so much fun… DH is so great with them — they just love playing with him.  It always makes me especially sad when our visits are over. Debbie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Will anyone ever call me mommy and bring me flowers in their chubby hand? Will anyone ever call me mommy and show me castles made of sand? Will anyone ever call me mommy and bring me pictures made in Sunday school? Will anyone ever call me mommy and say "I love you mom, you’re cool."? Will anyone ever call me mommy and invite me for pretend tea? Will anyone ever call me mommy and want me to kiss a scraped knee? Will anyone ever call me mommy and ask me advice about boys? Will anyone ever call me mommy and I’ll say "Turn down that noise!"? Will anyone ever call me mommy and turn 16 and wreck the car? Will anyone ever call me mommy and write to me from college far? Will anyone ever call me mommy I’ll be so proud at graduation? Will anyone ever call me mommy and look at me with admiration? Will anyone ever call me mommy and bring me grand kids to love and hold? Will anyone ever call me mommy and take care of me when I’m old? Will anyone ever call me mommy and think about me when I’m gone? Will anyone ever call me mommy before it all is said and done?

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I get a bit emotional and don’t know how to express myself.  My best friend since I was 7 had a baby girl in October.  She is 8 months old today. Everytime I hold her, I feel this gut wrenching pain that runs from my heart and puts a lump in my throat.  She is to be my god daughter and I can’t believe that I can love someone so much.  I see her daily and I spoil her beyond belief.  She loves me and yes I know she isn’t mine.  My mother keeps telling me "Mary, she isn’t your baby".  I know, but I don’t have anyone else to give this love to and my bestfriend allows me to give the love because she knows I can’t have my own.  Thanks for letting me share.

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That was wonderful!  It’s thinglike this I like to ‘keep’ on file.  it helps when someone who ‘does’nt’ understand, to read something like this, and realize just what we are ‘missing’ out on!  Thank you so much!  Did you author it or find it somewhere? Jim & Tam in Houston, Tx. trying for 10 yrs.

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That poem touches me Because I know deep odwn inside that I can’t have a child of my own unless its by the grace of the ALMIGHTY GOD.  Well two years ago today,one of my best friend had a little boy and I was very proud but at the time we were on good terms.  i didn’t get to see him until he was 9 months old them 3 months after that she was killed in a car accident. She was killed June 18, 1997 before he son first birthday.  And now it’s hard for me to see Quinton because he looks just like her.   Well now my other best friend just had a little boy.  It’s hard to hold back emotions when you want something so bad and you kbow that you can’t have it.  I guess it goes back to the peom. " Will anyone ever call me MOMMY?

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